"Primer: When You Have Too Much to Do"

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You have a to-do list that seems endless. You’re juggling multiple projects, receiving countless emails and messages across platforms, managing finances, maintaining personal health habits, and more.

It all piles up, and it can feel overwhelming. How do you keep up? How do you find focus and peace while getting things done when your plate is overflowing?

In this primer, I share key strategies and tactics to tackle an overloaded life with an open heart, renewed energy, and a smile.

Step 1: Triage

Whether you’re starting your day or caught in the chaos, the first step is triage mode—sorting through the mess to prioritize tasks based on urgency and importance.

Here’s how: - Create a Short List for today: Identify tasks that must be done today, such as critical project work, urgent tasks with consequences if ignored, or small administrative tasks. Be ruthless—aim for no more than five tasks. Not every email needs a response, and not everything is urgent. - Defer tasks: Push non-urgent tasks to tomorrow or later in the week. Renegotiate deadlines if possible to spread out the workload. - Eliminate tasks: Skip low-priority messages or commitments. For tasks you can’t take on, add them to a “To Not Do” list and plan to address them later (e.g., by declining or delegating).

Now you have breathing room and a manageable list. Next, narrow it down further.

Step 2: Focus on One Thing

With so much on your plate, choosing one task to focus on feels daunting—but it’s essential.

Here’s the shift: - Pick one task: Review your Short List. If there’s an urgent, time-sensitive task, prioritize it. Otherwise, choose the most important task—often the one you’ve been avoiding. - Clear distractions: Close browser tabs, turn off notifications, shut down unnecessary apps, and put your phone away. - Immerse yourself: Focus entirely on the chosen task. Treat it as a practice of letting go of everything else, embracing radical simplicity, and being fully present.

Work on this task for at least 15–20 minutes before switching. By focusing on one thing, you shift from a frazzled state to one of calm clarity.

Step 3: Schedule Time to Simplify

Your “To Not Do” list needs attention. Schedule time this week to simplify your commitments: - Say no to less important projects or tasks. - Delegate or renegotiate commitments you can’t fulfill. - Cross off low-priority items from your task list.

Protecting your time for meaningful work and personal well-being reduces overwhelm. You don’t need to simplify today—just schedule it and let go of the stress until then.

Step 4: Practice Mindful Focus

Adopt an attitude of “mindful focus” throughout your day. Focus on one task at a time, staying present and minimizing task-switching.

Think of this as a new mode of being—a mindfulness practice (imperfect but powerful). As you work through your Short List, approach each task with: - An open heart - Curiosity and gratitude - A sense of joy

This mindset transforms your relationship with work. Each task becomes perfect for the moment, and you’ll feel less overwhelmed.

Peace, Love, Balance.
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